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Optimum distance for best EC?

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Hey so I've noticed that I get good EC when I'm about 20-30 feet from the chick. I've held staring contests at this distance (gotta break in with a smile before it just seems like you're maddogging each other).

I've gotten good healthy EC at shorter distances but usually it lasts a few seconds and is over when our paths take us elsewhere. This is the nature of up front and close EC I guess.

Does anyone get consistently good 5-10 foot EC? I don't. Is it my incredibly good looks? LOL Do I look better at 20-30 feet or is just a function of human (female) nature? I imagine there is a sense of safetly for women at that distance.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
No such thing.

But I prefer <1 foot. ;)


JC
lol, looks are one thing.... and so is already being in the game

but step back and think outside of your life for a second

what if your not that great looking and your game is crap, but your doing the bootcamp and you want to hold the gaze...

if you walk up to a random girl in private that you've never met before and you walk straight up to her with a straight face she's going to think you've got something wrong with your head...

there really is no such thing as a perfect distance, before I started wearing glasses 5 feet and closer was the only place I could hold their gaze.
 
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