"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Opposites attract: Most hot brunettes I know are going for blonde or redhead guys.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PeasantPlayer
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Who Dares Win
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Make a white guy moderately tall, with dark hair and possibly blue eyes and he has an edge on everyone else.
While its funny that for guys its the other way around, guys chase blondies most of the time at least in my experience in any possible corner of Europe.
While I've never seen a guy change his hair color I see plenty of girls doing it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I get a lot more IOIs and at times even approaches from brunettes, find them to be a lot more receptive on average. With brunettes, I feel like I can get higher quality for the same amount of work I would put into getting with a blonde. The amount of work I put in chasing a blonde 6, I could get a brunette 8.
Majority of my success has come from tanned brunettes with darker features, along the lines of a Gina Carano type, though every now and then I might get lucky with a blonde.