"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Opposites attract: Most hot brunettes I know are going for blonde or redhead guys.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Make a white guy moderately tall, with dark hair and possibly blue eyes and he has an edge on everyone else.
While its funny that for guys its the other way around, guys chase blondies most of the time at least in my experience in any possible corner of Europe.
While I've never seen a guy change his hair color I see plenty of girls doing it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I get a lot more IOIs and at times even approaches from brunettes, find them to be a lot more receptive on average. With brunettes, I feel like I can get higher quality for the same amount of work I would put into getting with a blonde. The amount of work I put in chasing a blonde 6, I could get a brunette 8.
Majority of my success has come from tanned brunettes with darker features, along the lines of a Gina Carano type, though every now and then I might get lucky with a blonde.