“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blacksham

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Okay, synopsis:
I'm planning on asking out a girl whom I go to high school with. She is very intelligent (I believe she has a 4.3 or above as a Sophmore, at a college prep school, which is actually supposedly the 59th best HS in the country, but I digress) She is also very musically talented, last summer she spent four weeks in Germany where she was given a scholarship to go to a music college for Piano. On top of that, she is very nice, and exceedingly beautiful.
She has, I think, for a fairly long while been interested in me. That by no means indicates that I am quite as amazing, more that there is limited selection in our school and she and I are a good match as it seems.

Finally, she and I have an ongoing joke about the whole Mac vs PC debacle. I personally am very highly pro PC's, I dislike many of Apple's moves both in hardware and software development. She however, has a father who works for apple, and thus is very Pro-mac.

So here's what I want the opinion on. I wanted to do something kind of clever to ask her out, something memorable and sweet, as she hasn't dated anyone before to the best of my knowledge. My plan was to create a brief stop motion animated film, which involved an Apple (symbolizing that I have transcended my dislike for Jobs in my feelings for her) rotating around to reveal a hole in the shape of a heart. In this whole would be a note, which would unfold, carrying a note which I would obviously write my (most likely sappy) message upon.

Do you think that is a cute idea? I know it'll be a fair amount of work, but I love to do videographic stuff and my friend has offered to help me. Thanks in advance!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hughman

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Eh?

Good god man, she may appear intelligent, but if you keep pulling this geeky crap on her, you're going blow it. Trust me, I've been there, done that, got the sob story.

Just tell her you're going into town/the mall/wherever people in your town hang out, and tell her she can come along. Have a coffee, make her help find some good clothes, ****e like that. Bounce off whilst there's still a good vibe and good convo going, don't leave until you are both bored stiff.
 
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