"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ds1ur1f

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k so ive been having this issue when age is brought up in the discussion. Majority of the girls i go for just so happen to be older than me. Ill be at a bar/club and having a conversation and theres a lot of interest between us, but when age is brought up and they find out im like 2 or 3 year younger its like a total turn off for them. I dont understand it. Is there mind sets still stuck in high school, when it was not cool to be with a younger guy? my last girlfriend was 4 years older than me. Maybe im just thinking too far into the issue. What do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just lie. I'm guessing your going after 23-25 year olds. They're superficial anyways and your not going to end up marrying them. If things do end up working out, you can tell her the truth in 2 months, when she's head over heals for you and laugh at it then.
 

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I'm starting to like hot 40 yr olds. That's 7 years older, but if they look that good at that age then they will be aging well. I don't have to lie to a 40 yr old woman though because they like the young bucks.

Anyway, MacAvoy's has given you good advice.
 

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Anyway, MacAvoy's has given you good advice.
aah shucks, your just sayin that cuz you like me. I'm waiting for the morality police to jump all over me cuz good people don't lie.
 
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