"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ds1ur1f

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k so ive been having this issue when age is brought up in the discussion. Majority of the girls i go for just so happen to be older than me. Ill be at a bar/club and having a conversation and theres a lot of interest between us, but when age is brought up and they find out im like 2 or 3 year younger its like a total turn off for them. I dont understand it. Is there mind sets still stuck in high school, when it was not cool to be with a younger guy? my last girlfriend was 4 years older than me. Maybe im just thinking too far into the issue. What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just lie. I'm guessing your going after 23-25 year olds. They're superficial anyways and your not going to end up marrying them. If things do end up working out, you can tell her the truth in 2 months, when she's head over heals for you and laugh at it then.
 

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I'm starting to like hot 40 yr olds. That's 7 years older, but if they look that good at that age then they will be aging well. I don't have to lie to a 40 yr old woman though because they like the young bucks.

Anyway, MacAvoy's has given you good advice.
 

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Anyway, MacAvoy's has given you good advice.
aah shucks, your just sayin that cuz you like me. I'm waiting for the morality police to jump all over me cuz good people don't lie.
 
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