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Opinion on nose piercings

Nose piercings

  • Dislike

    Votes: 10 71.4%
  • Like

    Votes: 3 21.4%
  • Indifferent

    Votes: 1 7.1%

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dk1990S111

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What's everyone's opinion on them? Seems like over half the chicks I see on tinder have them. I personally find it very unattractive, why do girls want attention drawn to that specific part of their nose?

Realized that after my ex and I were through that was one of the first things she did. Never let her get one when we were together.
 

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I think they look good.

Ps I never understood how a boyfriend/girlfriend could forbid the other oartner from doing something... Just seems tyrannical. It would be a huge turn off if my gf told me I was forbidden from getting an eyebrow piercing. In fact I would immediately break up with her.
 

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i guess i should rephrase that. She never got one while we were together because i let her know every time she brought it up that I think they look retarded. I specifically remember once I told her "go ahead and get one but to me you will be less attractive". honest truth
 

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True. There's nothing wrong with honesty. So I don't think you were exhibiting traits of tyranny. Telling her straight up " I would find you less attractive, but you have to right to do whatever you want" is cool. Just when guys or girls are like "i forbid you from doing xyz" that's when I would say do xyz just to prove that you have a right to autonomy and self decision making. So if a girl "forbid" me from something I would deliberately do it, and then break up with her as a testament to my right to action.

Does that make any sense dk?
 

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I find Nose Stud piercings very sexy. Any other nose piercing is nasty though.
 

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dk1990S111

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Makes perfect sense, I can totally see what youre saying and I would do the same. I wasnt really focusing on that part of the statement when I typed it out, I was more focused on the fact that she got one right after we broke up. Part of the reason I made this post was to see if guys actually think nose piercings enhance a girls looks or detract from them. Because if the majority of guys dont like them then I dont get why girls get them (other than the fact that they are women and if they think its cute then thats all that matters to them)
 

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Frayzer said:
I find Nose Stud piercings very sexy. Any other nose piercing is nasty though.
ya thats the kind my ex wanted and eventually got. I will just never understand it. I guess its better than the septum piercings but still not my cup of tea
 

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dk1990S111 said:
Because if the majority of guys dont like them then I dont get why girls get them (other than the fact that they are women and if they think its cute then thats all that matters to them)
Desdinova wrote a piece on how he thought that women wore makeup to look good for other women, not for other men. I've heard a lot of people say that women dress to impress other women, not for men. Let's face it, most of us guys would be happy to see them in a tank top and short shorts.
There may be something going on like that with the piercings.

I don't particularly like nose piercings, but I don't really care unless they are huge and distracting. What I don't like is when women have like 7 ear holes, and they are all full of piercings, and the lobes get all weighed down and distorted. Do guys really like that? I kind of doubt it. So why are they wearing them? Maybe it is to impress other chicks.
 

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I think nose piercings of any type look dumb. I've never been a fan of body art on girls whether its piercings, tattoos, etc. My .02.
 

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zekko said:
Desdinova wrote a piece on how he thought that women wore makeup to look good for other women, not for other men. I've heard a lot of people say that women dress to impress other women, not for men. Let's face it, most of us guys would be happy to see them in a tank top and short shorts.
There may be something going on like that with the piercings.
I feel like women also dress to compete against other women. Kind of like a "I'm better than you" factor mixed with "I'm desirable" type of thing.


zekko said:
I don't particularly like nose piercings, but I don't really care unless they are huge and distracting. What I don't like is when women have like 7 ear holes, and they are all full of piercings, and the lobes get all weighed down and distorted. Do guys really like that? I kind of doubt it. So why are they wearing them? Maybe it is to impress other chicks.
My good friend is into those types of girls. They have like almost every body part pierced, big gauges, band shirts, random color dyed hair, and listen to either death core if not post-hardcore. Very "emo-y." I find these chicks to be very low quality.

In fact, if it weren't for this site I think I would have ended up similar to him. Thank God that didn't happen.
 

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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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Nose rings will get you auto friend zoned by me... yuk. Not feminine or sexy imo.

Ears and maybe the tongue but that is it... and I dislike tattoos as well... I love skin.
 
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