"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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opinion on "near anorexic" girls?

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Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Because she has those issues is that she'll cling to you.
 
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Originally posted by Mintyfresh
Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
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Treat her like any other chick. Its not your problem if she's screwed up in the head?
 
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there's no 'correct' way to game girls. Negging is NOT necessary to get 9's and 10's. Lots of PUA's believe that you dont even need to use it.

Best advice is to just be yourself. Besides, after you've 'gamed' her, your real personality is going to show forth, and if she doesnt like it, she'll dump u anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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true, ive just never gone after a female who's mental insecurities were layed out flat in the open before
 
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