"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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opinion on "near anorexic" girls?

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Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Because she has those issues is that she'll cling to you.
 
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Originally posted by Mintyfresh
Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
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Treat her like any other chick. Its not your problem if she's screwed up in the head?
 
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there's no 'correct' way to game girls. Negging is NOT necessary to get 9's and 10's. Lots of PUA's believe that you dont even need to use it.

Best advice is to just be yourself. Besides, after you've 'gamed' her, your real personality is going to show forth, and if she doesnt like it, she'll dump u anyway.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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true, ive just never gone after a female who's mental insecurities were layed out flat in the open before
 
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