"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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opinion on "near anorexic" girls?

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Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Because she has those issues is that she'll cling to you.
 
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Originally posted by Mintyfresh
Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder?

The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that it looks like she eats once a day if that.

This leads me to belive that although she is massivly good looking, she probably has really low self esteem and shouldn't be gamed like the average girl. At first i figured, okay shes about a 9 or a 10 i should probably neg-hit her a bit ... but uh thats probably not the right approach for somebody that has such issues with thier self esteem and body.

How would you game a chick like this?
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Treat her like any other chick. Its not your problem if she's screwed up in the head?
 
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there's no 'correct' way to game girls. Negging is NOT necessary to get 9's and 10's. Lots of PUA's believe that you dont even need to use it.

Best advice is to just be yourself. Besides, after you've 'gamed' her, your real personality is going to show forth, and if she doesnt like it, she'll dump u anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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true, ive just never gone after a female who's mental insecurities were layed out flat in the open before
 
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