"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's all about a girl. I'm pretty sure she likes me, she holds eye contact, she laugh my jokes... ( lol i know some of them are pretty funny )... I'm NOT chasing her... she sometimes ask me to go out with her friends sometimes I accept sometimes not...

I was going to ask that girl out for a certain day of the weekend but she apologized because that day was already scheduled for her... because she had the wedding of one of her best friends... my question is should I wait a bit before asking for an other time...

I'm really interested into that girl... but I don't have any problem into controlling myself... I'm a very patient person... waiting for the "ideal" opportunity...

any suggestions ??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yep you have dilly dallied around to much, you should made a move sooner. and in future when a girl says she has plans that day, suggest another day, if she says no to that one aswell then thats your que to move on. it saves you the time your waiting now to ask her out again.
 
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agree whole heartedly with the replies. Kid, I must ask you, what is your definintion of a don juan? I am not trying to be an ******* or anything, but we must grab the concept and really understand the whole concept of who we are, instead of trying to always get some quick fix. It goes without saying, if you have a tire and its flat you and put air in it today, and tomorrow its flat again, why keep putting air in the tire everyday when you can just get another tire and save yourself the headaches. You got me.
 
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lol...

Just some precisions...
I'm not as close as you think to that girl...

I'm not necessarily into her circle of friends and she is
not into MY circle of friends... sometimes she asks me
to do something with her or I ask her ...

I'm NOT chasing her... I'm testing her.... before making
any move...

And about when I asked her out for the weeekend she
said " Oh I'm so sorry! I apologize.... One of the friends
of when I was young Is getting maried that weeked..."

Sometimes by adding more precisions it helps... :p
thank u for the replies :)
 
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2 weeks

I suggest you wait two weeks then ask her out. Something not too complicated like playing billards, or a quick lunch (not the ultra fancy gizmo). If she refuses or doesn't offer an alternative, pass on and forget her.

If she offers an alternative, go along if it is acceptable. If she offers the big trap (see the post about the funny experiment in NYC), back out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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