operation retcon: becoming great

[Highrise]

Hey guys, this is my first post here. I read sosuave a little over a year ago I think but never posted. Had little to say really. Only things to learn.

When I first started reading I was 16 or thereabouts. 0 luck with women up to that point. And over time I read and learned..I got my hair cut, started to bulk, I actually went out and dated chicks. Lost my virginity Man this all sounds so disjointed, I've come to accept I'm terrible at explaining this game stuff. This is just to give you a brief background on who I am and where I'm coming from. I'm 18 now, use to work as a cook for a famous line of restauraunts here in Brisbane Australia (I've been out of work for about a month now, looking for a position in IT).

I knuckled down last year and found my game..WITH WOMEN. I partied, I did naughty things, my life with the girls was go on all fronts. Effectively I had nailed the relationships part of health, wealth and relationships.
I come to sosuave with a question. How do I take the success I had with women with me into life itself? I mean successful career, life in general. Has anyone here effectively done that? Has anyone here ever been in that boat?

I remembered sosuave the otherday while browsing the internet. I thought I'd actually sign up because now I have experiences to share too.

HR

 

[Migel]

Good question. Try to remember why you started to have success with women. Probably you got on this site and started to BELIEVE that you can make this happen. Use the same thing on your carreer. Find INSPIRATION and when you start BELIEVING that you can make something act upon it.

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

Hope this helps...

HR,

Good question indeed. I seem to have the reverse problem. Although I don't know your background in a career sense, here is my experience with family and friends that have this question.

First find out what it is you have a passion for. You had a passion to figure out the 'relationship' part, so it follows that you'll need to find that passion in a career too.(Migel made this point to you.)

Next, make a game plan to get where you want to be. Of course you'll need to find your passion first. And remember that you may have to sacrifice what you have now to get there. For instance I'm living with my father. And yea it blows cause of how old I am, but I don't let anything stop me from what I want. I'm putting my life back together and getting ready for the next step. F!ck the people who can't handle what you're doing. I'm not saying to take advantage or hurt someone, but there are people that are willing to help you. Develop that network and work it when you need too. You'll be giving back when the time comes. (I'm giving back right now. )

Lastly, assess where you are and make adjustments often. Don't get side tracked by life. Life happens. Namely women. Don't let that new GF drain your time and resources. Do what needs to be done. Because in the end you could be alone, so put your life together first. I guess you need to have a passion for that too.

Remember anything is possible! If you only new what I've been through, you'd wonder how I made it. I found my passion, made a plan, got people who would help me, and NEVER lost sight of my goal. The girl of my dreams walk into my life 3 months ago. She was part of my plan, but she knows where I'm headed and I let her know that I won't let anything in my way.

ADKdj