"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We all know Allen doesn't have time to roam around and read every single thread. Thus, Allen doesn't know just what the demand for a FR Forum is.

The Plan:

The plan is to PM SoSuave.com on Friday, March 31, 2006.

Title the PM message as: FR Forum



With enough demand, Allen will supply. Thus, we will ultimately get a FR Forum! :cheer: :rock:


Will you contribute to the creation of a FR Forum?

:yes:



Inspired by:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=96471
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ethnomethodologist

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Just tell me which time zone...

What if his inbox is already full?

Do we proceed PM the moderators and say "please forward this"?
 

wavejams007

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dude, don't you think the other mods have seen the demands for an FR forum though?

My suggestion is to go somewhere else, like other websites where FRs are in a forum, and participate more there.

Honestly, SS has become too big for its britches. I think that if DOCS succeeds with his site, it will blow this site out of the water. No threat intended to SS, but Docs site has a much broader vision.
 

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ethnomethodologist said:
Just tell me which time zone...

What if his inbox is already full?

Do we proceed PM the moderators and say "please forward this"?


Time zones don't matter. It's all concentrated mostly within 24 hours, and that is fine.


You don't have to proceed to the other moderators because:

1. Mods already KNOW that we want a FR Forum. They just can't do anything about it. ONLY SoSuave.com can create on.

2. If his inbox is full, SoSuave.com will still receive an e-mail saying that he just received another PM message, but he cannnot receive it because the inbox is full.
 

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Since the forum has been brought back on-line I have seen maybe a dozen posts about how we NEED a field report forum.

I have also seen maybe a dozen actual FR's in the main board sink off the first page only to be replaced by mindless dribble. Mindless dribble such as we NEED a field report forum. Not one of the pushers of the FR forum has bothered to respond to an actual field report. Isn't that what you want?

Instead of a field report forum why not a sub-division system in the wingman forum. Kind of like lairs where you can meet with your local folk and sarge with actual people. You can then come back and discuss your field reports with people who can give you REAL advice based on them knowing your style. This also defeats the know-it-all, inexperienced, little kids from giving advice since you can put a face to a post or response.

And also there are entire sites which are largely devoted to the dissection of field experiences. If that is what you want then dont bother with ss.net cause you will end up being disappointed.

Happy hunting
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bluelemond said:
2. If his inbox is full, SoSuave.com will still receive an e-mail saying that he just received another PM message, but he cannnot receive it because the inbox is full.
yaaaaa, that's if the guy has the box checked "Receive Email Notification of New Private Messages",

so your plan is to perster the guy into it????

maybe there is a reason for it (mabye one of the mods can enlighten us)
 

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In, I watched my double paged FR go down 3 PAGES!

It's still down there, Shezz posted on it, but it went down again.

I'll send two actually :p
 

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wavejams007 said:
Honestly, SS has become too big for its britches. I think that if DOCS succeeds with his site, it will blow this site out of the water.
:rolleyes: - I'll get there ^^,. I'll be sure to put up a full section for Field Report Submissions and a large dating section. (And I'll have some good moderation..haha)

Indeed, it's not meant as a takeover. But if I create the resources and user functionality, there's no telling how big it'll become. We can only see.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs said:
Yah!
-heh, I win ^^,
YEAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!​

LET'S DO THIS

:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

Here Allen, these are for you:flowers:
 

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The support we have so far is GREAT!

BUT

We need more SUPPORT for a FR Forum!


Do you want a FR Forum or what?

THIS is your chance!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ethnomethodologist said:
YEAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!​

LET'S DO THIS

:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

Here Allen, these are for you:flowers:


LETS GET PUPMED!


One DAY Left!
 

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We don't need an FR forum so lame asses like some people here can get their egos buffed from their internet "friends"

I predict Allen's PM will be blocked before you even have a chance to send anything
 

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Although I agree that FRs are fantastic to learn from, many people don't bother reading or responding to them. Do a search on FRs and see how many responses they get. A FR forum will ensure that they get ignored even more.

This site had a FR forum years ago, and it was done away with.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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