"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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alright guys, this have been hindering my approach with women. especially the one that pop out of nowhere and walk pass me. the moment was so fast and i can't think of a thing to say(plus the hesitation made it even worse). so any help would be appreciate.

well,what i'd usually say is "hi, how r u?". if i would have a bit more times, i would observe my surrounding or look at what she is wearing or doing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SEARCH.

SEARCH.

Search.

SEAAARRRCHHHHH.

There's 4 openers. Now test them out please. Give us a field report on how they work okay? Thanks lol.:rock:
 

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hahah, u're welcome.......and have a happy thanksgiving.
 

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"Hey you! Open this can of tuna!"


*another stupid question answered with a stupid answer*
Not again ><
This forum requires that you wait 60 seconds between posts. Please try again in 1 seconds.
 

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Canadian. lol Thanksgiving was in October for me.

But yea, use the search, there's a wealth of ideas and basics to be found. Some duds.. but a lot of gems.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yea I've met a few people from the forums lol.

I stopped doing that lol... They turned out to NOT be 'DJ's lol... it was sad.... it was very sad...
 

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oh yea i forgot. congrat on the 300th post!!!! kinda late but i can't help it. u're posting too fast.

wow, u guys already have thanksgiving last month? well, merry christmas then!!! u guys always a step ahead of us.
 

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Lol, one guy.. AlphaMaleX or somethign I forget lol... I talked to him on MSN a couple times, seemed like a cool guy, decided to go sarging with him...

Met him at a coffee shop, was ggonna run some day game... He came and was about 5'4... looked about 14 years old, but was actually 19.

Cute girl, no better then a 7... and I was like 'Go talk to her, lets see you in action'.. he was trying to get out of it... all worried and **** lol. I was like 'Come on man, its no big deal, so what if she rejects you, its just a starting point'.

He wouldn't do it. So I went over talked to her and then brought her to our table and introduced her to him... He didn't say a word lol.

For 3 hours we hung out downtown Toronto... and he made one approach... and his opener was somehting about what she was wearing, blew him off and he just choked...

Digusting lol... and that was one of the better encounters.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That was in a coffee shop, man...I love girls in coffee shops. Just sit down and talk to her (or if she's a cashier...just..gold).

You should of seen me in Ottawa Canada Day. Probably one of the few morons armed with a pen and a big Canada Flag on an umbrella...how's about 120 signatures and countless girls :D

If I wasn't leaving same night, I would of hit up the pub/bar scene :D

It was retarded though *spins eyes*
 

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Sounds fun lol. Coffee Shop, or on my school's campus are two of my favourites.
 

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:D, I was getting coffee before I went into work last night, and there was this new girl there. Very cute. I just ordered my coffee, I was in a little bit of a rush and wasn't really thinking much, and SHE opened me, saying how she's new and stuff. Talked for a little bit, made her laugh and then I had to go...

Got a break at 9, so I went down again in hopes of seeing her again, but no luck...

No worry though, I'll probably see her again :D
 

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Hahaha, Barista's are so easy. Its such a relaxed environment and they are at work they never expected it, but love when it happens.

I used to work at a coffee shop, the biggest PUA I ever met was the owner, he was 30, played a season for Argos as QB, but smashed up his shoulder so he was done.

One thing that was awesome he told me 'Not only will this get you big tips, but lots of numbers... anytime a female customer comes in, with friends, on her own, whatever always call her 'Sweetie'. You'll get some great tips and they feel special."

It was just around when I joined here and while it seemed counter productive to what this **** was suggesting... it worked so well haha... Bedroom in the basement of the place that I was allowed to take dates lol. Coolest guy ever.

I still keep in contact with him tons.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It was a Tim Hortons this time. :D
But I go into Baristas too, same deal. Actually, it's even funnier because I'll stare at that board and go, what's normal coffee, or how much is this, omg, don't give me the receipt! The last time, I think a medium hot chocolate at a Seattle was 375 or something insanely retarded. My date blushed when I said that.

That's really cool though, ex QB as a coffee shop owner, and a bedroom! Nice.
 

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Yea it was amazing. And it wasn't bad money either haha, he was paying me slave labour ($5) but I was making close to $8-20 an hour in tips. Plus most of the day was spent sitting in the couches and talking to all the people who came in... made some really cool friends. I've been searching for that kinda place since then lol.... unfortunately stuck at a Grocery store now haha.

I only go to Starbucks/Second Cup type places now... as you said its fun to tease them.
 

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Student wage, haha.

I'm reluctant to say this, but I'm army. But I'm not like normal army guys, not by a long shot. I actually don't fit into any one particular group of people, unless you call being right on cool a group :D

-Grocery stores are another wonderful wonderful place!!

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Lol plus its Canada's military lol.

But yea, my job is so mindless. And my boss is some middle age woman with kids and I flirt with her all the time hahahaha its hillarious.
 

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Indeed it is :rockon:, best army in the world! Maybe not the...best equipped...but by far, the best

It pays good, that's about it. I want to become self-sufficent anyways...I wish I had the time to work retail, that's an infinite amount of easy openers :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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