"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alright guys, this have been hindering my approach with women. especially the one that pop out of nowhere and walk pass me. the moment was so fast and i can't think of a thing to say(plus the hesitation made it even worse). so any help would be appreciate.

well,what i'd usually say is "hi, how r u?". if i would have a bit more times, i would observe my surrounding or look at what she is wearing or doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SEARCH.

SEARCH.

Search.

SEAAARRRCHHHHH.

There's 4 openers. Now test them out please. Give us a field report on how they work okay? Thanks lol.:rock:
 

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hahah, u're welcome.......and have a happy thanksgiving.
 

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"Hey you! Open this can of tuna!"


*another stupid question answered with a stupid answer*
Not again ><
This forum requires that you wait 60 seconds between posts. Please try again in 1 seconds.
 

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Canadian. lol Thanksgiving was in October for me.

But yea, use the search, there's a wealth of ideas and basics to be found. Some duds.. but a lot of gems.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yea I've met a few people from the forums lol.

I stopped doing that lol... They turned out to NOT be 'DJ's lol... it was sad.... it was very sad...
 

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oh yea i forgot. congrat on the 300th post!!!! kinda late but i can't help it. u're posting too fast.

wow, u guys already have thanksgiving last month? well, merry christmas then!!! u guys always a step ahead of us.
 

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Lol, one guy.. AlphaMaleX or somethign I forget lol... I talked to him on MSN a couple times, seemed like a cool guy, decided to go sarging with him...

Met him at a coffee shop, was ggonna run some day game... He came and was about 5'4... looked about 14 years old, but was actually 19.

Cute girl, no better then a 7... and I was like 'Go talk to her, lets see you in action'.. he was trying to get out of it... all worried and **** lol. I was like 'Come on man, its no big deal, so what if she rejects you, its just a starting point'.

He wouldn't do it. So I went over talked to her and then brought her to our table and introduced her to him... He didn't say a word lol.

For 3 hours we hung out downtown Toronto... and he made one approach... and his opener was somehting about what she was wearing, blew him off and he just choked...

Digusting lol... and that was one of the better encounters.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That was in a coffee shop, man...I love girls in coffee shops. Just sit down and talk to her (or if she's a cashier...just..gold).

You should of seen me in Ottawa Canada Day. Probably one of the few morons armed with a pen and a big Canada Flag on an umbrella...how's about 120 signatures and countless girls :D

If I wasn't leaving same night, I would of hit up the pub/bar scene :D

It was retarded though *spins eyes*
 

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Sounds fun lol. Coffee Shop, or on my school's campus are two of my favourites.
 

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:D, I was getting coffee before I went into work last night, and there was this new girl there. Very cute. I just ordered my coffee, I was in a little bit of a rush and wasn't really thinking much, and SHE opened me, saying how she's new and stuff. Talked for a little bit, made her laugh and then I had to go...

Got a break at 9, so I went down again in hopes of seeing her again, but no luck...

No worry though, I'll probably see her again :D
 

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Hahaha, Barista's are so easy. Its such a relaxed environment and they are at work they never expected it, but love when it happens.

I used to work at a coffee shop, the biggest PUA I ever met was the owner, he was 30, played a season for Argos as QB, but smashed up his shoulder so he was done.

One thing that was awesome he told me 'Not only will this get you big tips, but lots of numbers... anytime a female customer comes in, with friends, on her own, whatever always call her 'Sweetie'. You'll get some great tips and they feel special."

It was just around when I joined here and while it seemed counter productive to what this **** was suggesting... it worked so well haha... Bedroom in the basement of the place that I was allowed to take dates lol. Coolest guy ever.

I still keep in contact with him tons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It was a Tim Hortons this time. :D
But I go into Baristas too, same deal. Actually, it's even funnier because I'll stare at that board and go, what's normal coffee, or how much is this, omg, don't give me the receipt! The last time, I think a medium hot chocolate at a Seattle was 375 or something insanely retarded. My date blushed when I said that.

That's really cool though, ex QB as a coffee shop owner, and a bedroom! Nice.
 

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Yea it was amazing. And it wasn't bad money either haha, he was paying me slave labour ($5) but I was making close to $8-20 an hour in tips. Plus most of the day was spent sitting in the couches and talking to all the people who came in... made some really cool friends. I've been searching for that kinda place since then lol.... unfortunately stuck at a Grocery store now haha.

I only go to Starbucks/Second Cup type places now... as you said its fun to tease them.
 

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Student wage, haha.

I'm reluctant to say this, but I'm army. But I'm not like normal army guys, not by a long shot. I actually don't fit into any one particular group of people, unless you call being right on cool a group :D

-Grocery stores are another wonderful wonderful place!!

:D
 

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Lol plus its Canada's military lol.

But yea, my job is so mindless. And my boss is some middle age woman with kids and I flirt with her all the time hahahaha its hillarious.
 

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Indeed it is :rockon:, best army in the world! Maybe not the...best equipped...but by far, the best

It pays good, that's about it. I want to become self-sufficent anyways...I wish I had the time to work retail, that's an infinite amount of easy openers :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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