"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Openers

vazeh

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does anyone have any suggestions of openers when approaching a set?

The Game mentions a few like:
"did you see the fight outside"

does anyone have any they've heard of or come up with that work?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Would you date a guy who lives in a tent"
- go into a DHV story about the opener


"Is it ok to breakup with someone by text message (or you can use e-mail)"
- go into a DHV story about opener

"Would you ever date a guy in a wheel chair"
- go into a DHV about opener

"Can you dance?...(Start push/pull and quailifying right off the start while keeping a playful frame)...I need a gf to support while I fufill my dreams."
- Go into wateva you want maybe you need her to be a dancer in your music video or some roleplaying crap

Damn I'm getting lazy don't want to say my default openers but also check out the following openers...

Horse girl opener (I love shocker openers now and then following it up with an opinion opener)
Tatoo opener
Who lies more opener
 

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hmm. sometimes when i approach groups i can be an ashole but nowadays i will ask a question that can relate to all of them like if they are working i can say what are you doing talking you guys need to be working harder they call that pacing the situation all you need to be is observant and maybe be a little witty and you can comment about anything

P.S. don't ask me why i don't take my own advice
 
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