"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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does anyone have any suggestions of openers when approaching a set?

The Game mentions a few like:
"did you see the fight outside"

does anyone have any they've heard of or come up with that work?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Would you date a guy who lives in a tent"
- go into a DHV story about the opener


"Is it ok to breakup with someone by text message (or you can use e-mail)"
- go into a DHV story about opener

"Would you ever date a guy in a wheel chair"
- go into a DHV about opener

"Can you dance?...(Start push/pull and quailifying right off the start while keeping a playful frame)...I need a gf to support while I fufill my dreams."
- Go into wateva you want maybe you need her to be a dancer in your music video or some roleplaying crap

Damn I'm getting lazy don't want to say my default openers but also check out the following openers...

Horse girl opener (I love shocker openers now and then following it up with an opinion opener)
Tatoo opener
Who lies more opener
 
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hmm. sometimes when i approach groups i can be an ashole but nowadays i will ask a question that can relate to all of them like if they are working i can say what are you doing talking you guys need to be working harder they call that pacing the situation all you need to be is observant and maybe be a little witty and you can comment about anything

P.S. don't ask me why i don't take my own advice
 
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