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Openers to use in the mall or in class

Jamal

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Hey guys I just wanted to know any good opinion openers that are good when you see a hot chick in class or at the mall.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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Jamal said:
Hey guys I just wanted to know any good opinion openers that are good when you see a hot chick in class or at the mall.
how bout "hi"
if that don't work:
"Hi, I'm looking to make some new friends"
if its a group:
"Hey guys, I'm looking to make some new friends"

Worked miracles for me :p, though that might sound kinda akward in malls :p considering you should buy something, but you could ask her opinion about clothes, food whatever

Anyway maybe you should search this site abit because ITS stacked with these kind of threads... (why did I even bother to type the first part ^^)
 

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The more honest you come across, the easier it is to get a good response to openers. That's why things like "what's up my name's __" or "so what's your name?" work fine. It's not really just how you open, but how you follow it up.

When you follow it up, don't stay on the same topic. Talk about something different and interesting.
 
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