"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Openers to use in the mall or in class
- Thread starter Jamal
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Eaglecreek
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how bout "hi"Jamal said:
if that don't work:
"Hi, I'm looking to make some new friends"
if its a group:
"Hey guys, I'm looking to make some new friends"
Worked miracles for me
, though that might sound kinda akward in malls considering you should buy something, but you could ask her opinion about clothes, food whateverAnyway maybe you should search this site abit because ITS stacked with these kind of threads... (why did I even bother to type the first part ^^)
WC2
Master Don Juan
When you follow it up, don't stay on the same topic. Talk about something different and interesting.