"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Openers to use in the mall or in class

Jamal

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Hey guys I just wanted to know any good opinion openers that are good when you see a hot chick in class or at the mall.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jamal said:
Hey guys I just wanted to know any good opinion openers that are good when you see a hot chick in class or at the mall.
how bout "hi"
if that don't work:
"Hi, I'm looking to make some new friends"
if its a group:
"Hey guys, I'm looking to make some new friends"

Worked miracles for me :p, though that might sound kinda akward in malls :p considering you should buy something, but you could ask her opinion about clothes, food whatever

Anyway maybe you should search this site abit because ITS stacked with these kind of threads... (why did I even bother to type the first part ^^)
 

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The more honest you come across, the easier it is to get a good response to openers. That's why things like "what's up my name's __" or "so what's your name?" work fine. It's not really just how you open, but how you follow it up.

When you follow it up, don't stay on the same topic. Talk about something different and interesting.
 
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