"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Openers; Pickup Lines

Swagger

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Hey fellas,

i allready know a lot of style's openers and made many up bymyself.

but i really love good openers. specially the funny ones.

who knows where i can find a list of pickup lines? there's gotta be something like that on the net!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Swagger

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mrswabe said:
go to www.bristollair.com

Tons of openers there. Do you already have tight inner game?


hmm, i wouldn't say i got tight inner game. it depends. on many nights i have no problem approaching women and i don't care if i do get shut down and i do get number-closes and it's quite easy to open them up. i feel good. i feel like I'm handsome and all. I'm not shy. I get a lot of social proof in clubs because i know a lot of people.

yet there are some nights on which i can't get nothing right and I get self-conscious and stuff like that.

i read the game by neil strauss and the weapons of mass seduction by mr fingers.

but i have problems remembering all of that stuff and actually applying all of that. i keep feeling weird when it comes to kino and i have to admit i still didn't fully understand how to build rapport. it's too abstract.

that would be it for now ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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