"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Openers; Pickup Lines

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Hey fellas,

i allready know a lot of style's openers and made many up bymyself.

but i really love good openers. specially the funny ones.

who knows where i can find a list of pickup lines? there's gotta be something like that on the net!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrswabe said:
go to www.bristollair.com

Tons of openers there. Do you already have tight inner game?
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hmm, i wouldn't say i got tight inner game. it depends. on many nights i have no problem approaching women and i don't care if i do get shut down and i do get number-closes and it's quite easy to open them up. i feel good. i feel like I'm handsome and all. I'm not shy. I get a lot of social proof in clubs because i know a lot of people.

yet there are some nights on which i can't get nothing right and I get self-conscious and stuff like that.

i read the game by neil strauss and the weapons of mass seduction by mr fingers.

but i have problems remembering all of that stuff and actually applying all of that. i keep feeling weird when it comes to kino and i have to admit i still didn't fully understand how to build rapport. it's too abstract.

that would be it for now ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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