"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Openers for a gym

Viking25

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I started working out again and I see lots of quality HBs there. I love these girs..they work out on saturday night to look good.,just like me.
I havent had trouble asking if I can worki in with them ( using the same machine)...but after they say "yes"...I wasnt able to take it anywhere.
I couldnt find any openers/conversation topics for a gym inviroment. Any ideas? I just beed something to get me started.... :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zero Hero

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"Nice snatch. Mind if I work in?"

LOL, but for real you just have to keep it very un-sexual and natural. Women are very self-conscious at the gym and you really do need to go for the friends-first route. I assume you're only talking to decent or better looking women, so how about asking them what they are working out for. Maybe ask them for advice on training different muscles if they seem like they know what they are doing. I've never had any success doing this and I know it's a difficult place to pickup. Good luck.
 

SamePendo

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My gym thread. Look for my first and third post.

Zero Hero said:
but for real you just have to keep it very un-sexual and natural. . . . you really do need to go for the friends-first route. . . . I've never had any success doing this and I know it's a difficult place to pickup.
Try out what I put. You also have some problems with women and are pedestializing them. Read the bible all over again, and get it in your head that, as one users sig says "girls are horny!".

Also, one from my collection:

Read this after reading the bible again. . . . or now, and bump it to illuminate guys here.
 

Viking25

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I know girls are horny..but in the gym enviroment they are really consious too. And then all those guys looking at them like creeps.
Bump! :wave:
 

THE_ADDMAN

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Zero Hero said:
"Nice snatch. Mind if I work in?"

:crackup: that is awesome
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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