"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Openers for a gym

Viking25

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I started working out again and I see lots of quality HBs there. I love these girs..they work out on saturday night to look good.,just like me.
I havent had trouble asking if I can worki in with them ( using the same machine)...but after they say "yes"...I wasnt able to take it anywhere.
I couldnt find any openers/conversation topics for a gym inviroment. Any ideas? I just beed something to get me started.... :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zero Hero

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"Nice snatch. Mind if I work in?"

LOL, but for real you just have to keep it very un-sexual and natural. Women are very self-conscious at the gym and you really do need to go for the friends-first route. I assume you're only talking to decent or better looking women, so how about asking them what they are working out for. Maybe ask them for advice on training different muscles if they seem like they know what they are doing. I've never had any success doing this and I know it's a difficult place to pickup. Good luck.
 

SamePendo

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My gym thread. Look for my first and third post.

Zero Hero said:
but for real you just have to keep it very un-sexual and natural. . . . you really do need to go for the friends-first route. . . . I've never had any success doing this and I know it's a difficult place to pickup.
Try out what I put. You also have some problems with women and are pedestializing them. Read the bible all over again, and get it in your head that, as one users sig says "girls are horny!".

Also, one from my collection:

Read this after reading the bible again. . . . or now, and bump it to illuminate guys here.
 

Viking25

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I know girls are horny..but in the gym enviroment they are really consious too. And then all those guys looking at them like creeps.
Bump! :wave:
 

THE_ADDMAN

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Zero Hero said:
"Nice snatch. Mind if I work in?"

:crackup: that is awesome
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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