"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Openers and Routines

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Does anyone know any good openers and routines?

Or a place to get them?

What I am interested in is reading a few sample scripts of convos or some sort of proven openers that last a few minutes that I can practice and use.

I have a few things I normally use/say, and I have a few funny routines like the cell phone sex routine I posted about earlier, but I want some tips on how to write and perfect my own routines. I figure a good way to do that is to look at some stuff other people came up with and develop or incorporate that into my repetoir as well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is that you are reading? You look like the type of girl that would go for this *pull out a totally different book you like*

she agrees, you got a level.
 

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I want to read some sample openers/scripts/routines that other people have come up with and used so I can get an idea of how to plan them out and get ideas to develop my own routines with it...
 

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you know what...you can study for countless hours on pickup lines, routines and how to do it with all the DJ effects and glory, but when it comes down to it....

..Make your own :p.
 

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Yeah...

Well the thing is I'm taking David DeAngelo's challenge of trying his material for 90 days to really make it work.

Part of his material in the Advanced Dating Techniques program is to write down situations and routines of what you would say, how she would react, how you would react, etc. And also to work out on paper some default things to say, so that you're prepared.

I just kind of need a leg up on getting started in this whole aspect of preparing ahead of time and really thinking through the routines.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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