"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Openers and Routines

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Does anyone know any good openers and routines?

Or a place to get them?

What I am interested in is reading a few sample scripts of convos or some sort of proven openers that last a few minutes that I can practice and use.

I have a few things I normally use/say, and I have a few funny routines like the cell phone sex routine I posted about earlier, but I want some tips on how to write and perfect my own routines. I figure a good way to do that is to look at some stuff other people came up with and develop or incorporate that into my repetoir as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is that you are reading? You look like the type of girl that would go for this *pull out a totally different book you like*

she agrees, you got a level.
 
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I want to read some sample openers/scripts/routines that other people have come up with and used so I can get an idea of how to plan them out and get ideas to develop my own routines with it...
 
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you know what...you can study for countless hours on pickup lines, routines and how to do it with all the DJ effects and glory, but when it comes down to it....

..Make your own :p.
 
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Yeah...

Well the thing is I'm taking David DeAngelo's challenge of trying his material for 90 days to really make it work.

Part of his material in the Advanced Dating Techniques program is to write down situations and routines of what you would say, how she would react, how you would react, etc. And also to work out on paper some default things to say, so that you're prepared.

I just kind of need a leg up on getting started in this whole aspect of preparing ahead of time and really thinking through the routines.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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