openers and greetings

[Slippery Sam]

i just switched to a school with girls in it, from an all guys school. my days are pretty good, ive already gone out with some cool girls and am friends with the popular guys but when i see some girl that i've talked to before or just want to talk to i can never think of something cool to say. sometimes ill just walk up and say wats up and girls will look at me, smile and say the same but then i just cant think of anything and its gets real awkward. also most girls are just waiting for someone to talk to them and its pretty obvious so i feel even worse when they're making obvious iois in my direction and i cant deliver. what should i do? i've already written some conversation topics on an index card and those work but once ive used them up, theres nothing new for me to say. if a girl adds to the conversation im good at making jokes and being ****y/funny but again, i cant think of the next thing to say.

 

[James18]

You're on the right track- talk to girls showing IOI/eye contact and your life will be a lot easier. Situational openers are really best, a lot of canned ones are very transparent. For convo- stop trying to impress and let the girl talk. Pick up something she says and expand on it with open ended questions. Less is more on your end.

 

[Juice09]

There's a whole list of canned openers here:

http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/****y/667.html

A good opener if she is behind you, accuse her of starring at your ass.

 

[Analyzeit]

Hey i'm ________ what's your name?? (shake hands if you want to = Kino Begins!) I mean you can only use it on people you haven't met but it works

Its ****y because you just came up told her your name and asked hers directly and funny because it's just so original which many people say is hard to be, trust me on this one, i mean it sounds bad and boring, but it's simple, good and has almost no risk.

I mean its not like the whole conversation is like that after this you start flirting simple.

Please for the love of god and all his many people do not accuse her of staring at your ass if she's behind her, a lot of girls i know have a lot more dignity then that and will just walk on by, or say something not nice, especially if she with her *****y mates

You can try some of the ones on the website juice said but hey what's more simpler then what i said? and you get turned down especially hard if you use one of those ones

But you didn't ask that question really, I'm just trying to stop you from what juice is saying to do.

I get exactly the same feeling you do and i just run out of things to say especially when you know them a little.

One way to help this is to make sure your doing something, walking somewhere, reading a book, and just talk about what's happening and hope something good happens.

I mack on chicks on a bus and it's perfect, where always driving past stuff or someone's doing something weird, make the most of the situation.

 

[Slippery Sam]

thanks guys ill check out that site, and also now im paying attention to funny things that happen to me so ill have a story later for it. for instance, i tried yoga the other day to help my back out and this has lead to great conversations because many girls can relate to this kind of ****.