European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To the people who use OkCupid/POF and other dating sites.
How do you guys open theese girls
?
Regards
How do you guys open theese girls
?Regards
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Opener for OkCupid?
- Thread starter European-DJ
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Even with their age posted on the site, I just send them a message saying
"Are you over 30?" Let's just say it works about 75% of them time, and then
you have a hook. They often get self-conscious and start saying "No, I'm not.
Why, do I look like I'm 30?" Others just laugh, get playful and write you back
(which are the ones I pick). Some don't answer at all and a I've had a few
just explode in anger, haha. Try it and see how it works for you.
"Are you over 30?" Let's just say it works about 75% of them time, and then
you have a hook. They often get self-conscious and start saying "No, I'm not.
Why, do I look like I'm 30?" Others just laugh, get playful and write you back
(which are the ones I pick). Some don't answer at all and a I've had a few
just explode in anger, haha. Try it and see how it works for you.