European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To the people who use OkCupid/POF and other dating sites.
How do you guys open theese girls
?
Regards
How do you guys open theese girls
?Regards
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Opener for OkCupid?
- Thread starter European-DJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Even with their age posted on the site, I just send them a message saying
"Are you over 30?" Let's just say it works about 75% of them time, and then
you have a hook. They often get self-conscious and start saying "No, I'm not.
Why, do I look like I'm 30?" Others just laugh, get playful and write you back
(which are the ones I pick). Some don't answer at all and a I've had a few
just explode in anger, haha. Try it and see how it works for you.
"Are you over 30?" Let's just say it works about 75% of them time, and then
you have a hook. They often get self-conscious and start saying "No, I'm not.
Why, do I look like I'm 30?" Others just laugh, get playful and write you back
(which are the ones I pick). Some don't answer at all and a I've had a few
just explode in anger, haha. Try it and see how it works for you.