backbreaker
Master Don Juan
just becuase a woman isn't living up to her standards, doesn't give you just reason not to live up to yours.
that's a chump argument. try again
that's a chump argument. try again
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bukowski_merit said:How is your endorsement of telling lies to a woman to get pvssy any different than opening a door for a woman to get pvssy?
You will only endorse behavior that is destructive towards the women?
TheAsianLoverReturns said:I'll tell you what, when a woman cooks a home cooked dinner for me, I'll open a door for her.
Women nowadays can't
cook
clean
keep good company
In fact, now they expect men to do all of the above, PLUS pay for everything.
Women are not the women of our grandparent's generation.
You want to be a fool, knock yourself out. I couldn't care less what you do with your life.
I'm glad there are some guys with common sense on this forum.Wilko said:That's the knockout argument for me right there. The rules have changed for both sexes. Men opening doors, women keeping a man's home, they're anachronisms. They were relevant cultural traditions once but for better or worse (better I say) the western world has moved on; I don't bow for royalty or tip my hat either.
If a woman drew attention to it in the way the OP's plate did it would make me think she was hopelessly out of touch with the world.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm dealing with a feeble intellect I see.Kailex said:Did you even answer Bukowski's question? Quite frankly, I'm interested in hearing a straight forward answer instead of talking about how if women don't live up to their standards, we should ignore ours. That's like saying that if I'm at work and someone doesn't do their workload, I shouldn't have to do mine. It's rubbish.
And I've gone out with plenty of women that know how to open the door for me, cook, clean, etc...
Begs to ask the question... what kind of women are you meeting that you'd have to bargain "Cooking vs Opening Doors".
Date a high enough IL woman and she'll want to learn to cook for you while opening up the doors for you.
I don't believe any of that for a second. First of all, I've seen what you look like. No offense, but you epitomize the word geek/nerd. I can see why you have struggled attracting quality looking women your whole life. Especially now with this sh1t azz attitude you have. Secondly, 99.9999999% of the people who have websites, brochures, hold seminars, go on you tube like you, etc...all talking about how to attract women, have in my experience been lets say, more on the ugly side, shunned by hot women their whole life, and again, what I would call nerd creeper guys. You really should run for the PONN. President of Nerd Nation. You are their crowning jewel.TheAsianLoverReturns said:I've had women spend thousands of dollars on me, cooking meals, swallowing my jizz, and taking it up the a$$.
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HAHAHA!cordoncordon said:I don't believe any of that for a second. First of all, I've seen what you look like. No offense, but you epitomize the word geek/nerd. I can see why you have struggled attracting quality looking women your whole life. Especially now with this sh1t azz attitude you have. Secondly, 99.9999999% of the people who have websites, brochures, hold seminars, go on you tube like you, etc...all talking about how to attract women, have in my experience been lets say, more on the ugly side, shunned by hot women their whole life, and again, what I would call nerd creeper guys. You really should run for the PONN. President of Nerd Nation. You are their crowning jewel.
You just gave a shining example of what I was talking about. You go online and try to convince all the other nerd loser guys how "THEY TOO can win with women!" Seen it a hundred times...you guys are all alike.TheAsianLoverReturns said:HAHAHA!
Unlike you, I have PROOF of my game.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzWTKqq4_Q0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-rK-Ph9_9Q
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NCFN11-Cm3Y
1. Julie
November 2007 – April 2008
Fine ho
Abusive parents, abusive men
Dated 6 months. Lot of drama. She spent thousands of dollars on me, she took it up the ass, sex whenever I wanted it. I broke up with her several times, she took me back each time.
How I got her:
I was her personal trainer, she was in an abusive relationship with her husband, she is attracted to aloof, ****y jerks, she likes muscular men.
How she blew out:
I told her the truth. I told her I want to **** a lot of women and have no plans for settling down until my 40’s. I sold my balls trying to get back with her.
http://theasianlover.com/my-women/
What do you have?
NOTHING!
You're white right?cordoncordon said:You just gave a shining example of what I was talking about. You go online and try to convince all the other nerd loser guys how "THEY TOO can win with women!" Seen it a hundred times...you guys are all alike.
As far as what I have, I'm a little older than you, have been in many ltr's, and dated and fvcked 100's, all mostly an 8 or higher. Luckily I am a pretty good looking guy (white), am smart, very athletic, and make good money running my own business, so I won't lie, that all helps.
Am currently in a 1.5 year long relationship with this girl. Honestly couldn't be happier. You might like her considering you are Asian.
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg
Guys don't yell at me because I posted her pic again![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheAsianLoverReturns said:You're white right?
It doesn't take any game for you to land an Asian girl. You know it and I know it.
You didn't f*ck 100s liar. You f*cked 2, maybe 3 women. You are a computer nerd that works in the IT department. You lucked up on an Asian girl that only dates white guys and she was the best you could ever get.
I see through your bullsh*t.
NERD
LOL, read my post from the other day. I lost my V card when I was 15 and haven't stopped since. Have had too many relationships over 3 months than I can count. Well over 100 lays. Well OVER.TheAsianLoverReturns said:You're white right?
It doesn't take any game for you to land an Asian girl. You know it and I know it.
You didn't f*ck 100s liar. You f*cked 2, maybe 3 women. You are a computer nerd that works in the IT department. You lucked up on an Asian girl that only dates white guys and she was the best you could ever get.
I see through your bullsh*t.
NERD
SoldMySoul said:I am selling tickets to this:
TheAsianLoverReturns vs Cordoncordon
In this corner, we have the skinny asian that makes youtube vids and in that corner we have the six figure (getn mo pvss than a toilet seat) Cordon.
In Cord's corner, his hot a$$ Asian lover that the asian lover is jealous of and definitely wants to bang!
Will you two fukstiks knock this silly $hit off!!! God d A m N!!!! This thread is stale enough!!! It was cool when it started, but now.... If you both will agree and the mods will allow, I will make a thread for you two to measure each other's richard, punch each other and or see who can pull more hoes.
This coming from mynameisnobody aka vladtheimpaler aka the most insane person to ever grace these forums. :moon:Bluntmaster said:They are both retarded f@gs for being grown men arguing on the Internet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This made me spit my drink onto my computer.Bluntmaster said:...Cue cordon to start bragging about his 6 figure salary....
I'm definitely looking forward to this thread :box:SoldMySoul said:I am selling tickets to this:
TheAsianLoverReturns vs Cordoncordon
In this corner, we have the skinny asian that makes youtube vids and in that corner we have the six figure (getn mo pvss than a toilet seat) Cordon.
In Cord's corner, his hot a$$ Asian lover that the asian lover is jealous of and definitely wants to bang!
Nope actually only the 2nd!f283000 said:I'm definitely looking forward to this thread :box:
Did I read this right? Cordon once again parading his gf around the sosuave forums? This is the 1,423,36th time that cordon has posted something about his asian gf.![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.