"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Open the door or Take me back to my car"

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just becuase a woman isn't living up to her standards, doesn't give you just reason not to live up to yours.

that's a chump argument. try again
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bukowski_merit said:
How is your endorsement of telling lies to a woman to get pvssy any different than opening a door for a woman to get pvssy?

You will only endorse behavior that is destructive towards the women?

TheAsianLoverReturns said:
I'll tell you what, when a woman cooks a home cooked dinner for me, I'll open a door for her.

Women nowadays can't

cook
clean
keep good company


In fact, now they expect men to do all of the above, PLUS pay for everything.

Women are not the women of our grandparent's generation.

You want to be a fool, knock yourself out. I couldn't care less what you do with your life.


Did you even answer Bukowski's question? Quite frankly, I'm interested in hearing a straight forward answer instead of talking about how if women don't live up to their standards, we should ignore ours. That's like saying that if I'm at work and someone doesn't do their workload, I shouldn't have to do mine. It's rubbish.

And I've gone out with plenty of women that know how to open the door for me, cook, clean, etc...

Begs to ask the question... what kind of women are you meeting that you'd have to bargain "Cooking vs Opening Doors".

Date a high enough IL woman and she'll want to learn to cook for you while opening up the doors for you.
 

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If a guy does not wish to open a door for a particular woman, he should probably not be with her in the first place.
 

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Amazing... A chump calling me a chump.

If someone killed a close family member, say... your child. He got off on a technicality and won't do a day in prison. What would do?

The murderer isn't living up to the standard of the social contract. Should you?
 

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Wilko said:
That's the knockout argument for me right there. The rules have changed for both sexes. Men opening doors, women keeping a man's home, they're anachronisms. They were relevant cultural traditions once but for better or worse (better I say) the western world has moved on; I don't bow for royalty or tip my hat either.

If a woman drew attention to it in the way the OP's plate did it would make me think she was hopelessly out of touch with the world.
I'm glad there are some guys with common sense on this forum.

Common sense isn't common anymore in this day and age.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kailex said:
Did you even answer Bukowski's question? Quite frankly, I'm interested in hearing a straight forward answer instead of talking about how if women don't live up to their standards, we should ignore ours. That's like saying that if I'm at work and someone doesn't do their workload, I shouldn't have to do mine. It's rubbish.

And I've gone out with plenty of women that know how to open the door for me, cook, clean, etc...

Begs to ask the question... what kind of women are you meeting that you'd have to bargain "Cooking vs Opening Doors".

Date a high enough IL woman and she'll want to learn to cook for you while opening up the doors for you.
I'm dealing with a feeble intellect I see.

I've had women spend thousands of dollars on me, cooking meals, swallowing my jizz, and taking it up the a$$.

That's not the point. You've had women open doors for you. Good for you.

The point is that women EXPECT men to live up to the standards of patriarchy while men receive NONE of the benefits of patriarchy.

Idioto...
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
I've had women spend thousands of dollars on me, cooking meals, swallowing my jizz, and taking it up the a$$.


Es
I don't believe any of that for a second. First of all, I've seen what you look like. No offense, but you epitomize the word geek/nerd. I can see why you have struggled attracting quality looking women your whole life. Especially now with this sh1t azz attitude you have. Secondly, 99.9999999% of the people who have websites, brochures, hold seminars, go on you tube like you, etc...all talking about how to attract women, have in my experience been lets say, more on the ugly side, shunned by hot women their whole life, and again, what I would call nerd creeper guys. You really should run for the PONN. President of Nerd Nation. You are their crowning jewel.
 

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cordoncordon said:
I don't believe any of that for a second. First of all, I've seen what you look like. No offense, but you epitomize the word geek/nerd. I can see why you have struggled attracting quality looking women your whole life. Especially now with this sh1t azz attitude you have. Secondly, 99.9999999% of the people who have websites, brochures, hold seminars, go on you tube like you, etc...all talking about how to attract women, have in my experience been lets say, more on the ugly side, shunned by hot women their whole life, and again, what I would call nerd creeper guys. You really should run for the PONN. President of Nerd Nation. You are their crowning jewel.
HAHAHA!

Unlike you, I have PROOF of my game.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzWTKqq4_Q0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-rK-Ph9_9Q

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NCFN11-Cm3Y

1. Julie
November 2007 – April 2008
Fine ho
Abusive parents, abusive men
Dated 6 months. Lot of drama. She spent thousands of dollars on me, she took it up the ass, sex whenever I wanted it. I broke up with her several times, she took me back each time.
How I got her:
I was her personal trainer, she was in an abusive relationship with her husband, she is attracted to aloof, ****y jerks, she likes muscular men.
How she blew out:
I told her the truth. I told her I want to **** a lot of women and have no plans for settling down until my 40’s. I sold my balls trying to get back with her.

http://theasianlover.com/my-women/

What do you have?

NOTHING!
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
HAHAHA!

Unlike you, I have PROOF of my game.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzWTKqq4_Q0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-rK-Ph9_9Q

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NCFN11-Cm3Y

1. Julie
November 2007 – April 2008
Fine ho
Abusive parents, abusive men
Dated 6 months. Lot of drama. She spent thousands of dollars on me, she took it up the ass, sex whenever I wanted it. I broke up with her several times, she took me back each time.
How I got her:
I was her personal trainer, she was in an abusive relationship with her husband, she is attracted to aloof, ****y jerks, she likes muscular men.
How she blew out:
I told her the truth. I told her I want to **** a lot of women and have no plans for settling down until my 40’s. I sold my balls trying to get back with her.

http://theasianlover.com/my-women/

What do you have?

NOTHING!
You just gave a shining example of what I was talking about. You go online and try to convince all the other nerd loser guys how "THEY TOO can win with women!" Seen it a hundred times...you guys are all alike.

As far as what I have, I'm a little older than you, have been in many ltr's, and dated and fvcked 100's, all mostly an 8 or higher. Luckily I am a pretty good looking guy (white), am smart, very athletic, and make good money running my own business, so I won't lie, that all helps.

Am currently in a 1.5 year long relationship with this girl. Honestly couldn't be happier. You might like her considering you are Asian. :)
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg

Guys don't yell at me because I posted her pic again :)
 

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cordoncordon said:
You just gave a shining example of what I was talking about. You go online and try to convince all the other nerd loser guys how "THEY TOO can win with women!" Seen it a hundred times...you guys are all alike.

As far as what I have, I'm a little older than you, have been in many ltr's, and dated and fvcked 100's, all mostly an 8 or higher. Luckily I am a pretty good looking guy (white), am smart, very athletic, and make good money running my own business, so I won't lie, that all helps.

Am currently in a 1.5 year long relationship with this girl. Honestly couldn't be happier. You might like her considering you are Asian. :)
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg

Guys don't yell at me because I posted her pic again :)
You're white right?

It doesn't take any game for you to land an Asian girl. You know it and I know it.

You didn't f*ck 100s liar. You f*cked 2, maybe 3 women. You are a computer nerd that works in the IT department. You lucked up on an Asian girl that only dates white guys and she was the best you could ever get.

I see through your bullsh*t.

NERD
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
You're white right?

It doesn't take any game for you to land an Asian girl. You know it and I know it.

You didn't f*ck 100s liar. You f*cked 2, maybe 3 women. You are a computer nerd that works in the IT department. You lucked up on an Asian girl that only dates white guys and she was the best you could ever get.

I see through your bullsh*t.

NERD

...Cue cordon to start bragging about his 6 figure salary....
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
You're white right?

It doesn't take any game for you to land an Asian girl. You know it and I know it.

You didn't f*ck 100s liar. You f*cked 2, maybe 3 women. You are a computer nerd that works in the IT department. You lucked up on an Asian girl that only dates white guys and she was the best you could ever get.

I see through your bullsh*t.

NERD
LOL, read my post from the other day. I lost my V card when I was 15 and haven't stopped since. Have had too many relationships over 3 months than I can count. Well over 100 lays. Well OVER.

As for being an IT nerd. Have no idea about any of that stuff, although I am on the computer all day trading. I'm a Econ graduate who worked on the Chicago options exchange for 4 years, then went on to train and own race horses for many years, and always traded stocks on the side. Now I daytrade stocks for a living. Up at 6 AM, done by 1 PM so I can enjoy the sunny days here in Southern CA.

As for white guys dating Asian girls, true to an extent, although it isn't that easy, especially out here. Many like to stay with fellow Asians. And trust me, the super hot ones? They are the same as any other race and get hit on the exact same as a white girl, and have all the same issues.

Here is a girl I dated in between my ex fiance of 5 years and my present gf. Dated about 4 months. Good example of the rating of the type of girl I have usually dated.

http://img513.imageshack.us/img513/3522/34409186.jpg
 

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I am selling tickets to this:


TheAsianLoverReturns vs Cordoncordon

In this corner, we have the skinny asian that makes youtube vids and in that corner we have the six figure (getn mo pvss than a toilet seat) Cordon.

In Cord's corner, his hot a$$ Asian lover that the asian lover is jealous of and definitely wants to bang!

Will you two fukstiks knock this silly $hit off!!! God d A m N!!!! This thread is stale enough!!! It was cool when it started, but now.... If you both will agree and the mods will allow, I will make a thread for you two to measure each other's richard, punch each other and or see who can pull more hoes.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
I am selling tickets to this:


TheAsianLoverReturns vs Cordoncordon

In this corner, we have the skinny asian that makes youtube vids and in that corner we have the six figure (getn mo pvss than a toilet seat) Cordon.

In Cord's corner, his hot a$$ Asian lover that the asian lover is jealous of and definitely wants to bang!

Will you two fukstiks knock this silly $hit off!!! God d A m N!!!! This thread is stale enough!!! It was cool when it started, but now.... If you both will agree and the mods will allow, I will make a thread for you two to measure each other's richard, punch each other and or see who can pull more hoes.

They are both retarded f@gs for being grown men arguing on the Internet.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
They are both retarded f@gs for being grown men arguing on the Internet.
This coming from mynameisnobody aka vladtheimpaler aka the most insane person to ever grace these forums. :moon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nothing wrong with being an IT nerd. Being an IT nerd has made quite a bit of money.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
...Cue cordon to start bragging about his 6 figure salary....
This made me spit my drink onto my computer.

dude, you should get into comedy. You are hilarious! I bet if you had the drive or motivation, and balls to move somewhere, you could make it big in writing for sitcoms, or improv.

However, please, boys, continue. :woo:
 

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SoldMySoul said:
I am selling tickets to this:


TheAsianLoverReturns vs Cordoncordon

In this corner, we have the skinny asian that makes youtube vids and in that corner we have the six figure (getn mo pvss than a toilet seat) Cordon.

In Cord's corner, his hot a$$ Asian lover that the asian lover is jealous of and definitely wants to bang!
I'm definitely looking forward to this thread :box:

Did I read this right? Cordon once again parading his gf around the sosuave forums? This is the 1,423,36th time that cordon has posted something about his asian gf. :D
 

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Since when does the number of skanky b*tches we've banged in the past or a attractive LTR determine one's status as a man? Plenty of those women I'm sure would have humped a pool cue at the end of the night, and the hot asian GF could be a complete misery to be around for all we know.

I've always found guys who measure their manly status by only their number of sexual partners to be sad and sorely misdirected. Who are these women that you give them the right to determine YOUR worth?

I determine MY worth by MY life. If you use something else to determine your worth, no wonder you're so confused and caught up in this cyber pissing match. You're both older than me, why do I have to tell you this? :nono:
 

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f283000 said:
I'm definitely looking forward to this thread :box:

Did I read this right? Cordon once again parading his gf around the sosuave forums? This is the 1,423,36th time that cordon has posted something about his asian gf. :D
Nope actually only the 2nd!

Still waiting for pics of the girls you are dating!

I know they are fatties because that is what you are into but fat people need lovin' too!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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