"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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open minded djs only, would you pay for sex under these circumstances

cola

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This isnt a thread about paying for sex becaude you cant get girls..
But say you were really busy and diddnt have TIME for girls.. Like you had a very time consuming career and
Didnt have time to

1. Pass **** tests
2. Go on several dates
3. Deal with her general bull****

Would you just say f it and kick out 100 $ for a half hour of rough sex with a hot girl?
Or would pride stop you?

I mean we pay for sex anyway right?
Gas, dinner, time you could be spending making money??
It amounts to about the same as a hot escort so what's the difference if the end goal is to get laid either way?
Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There are females out there with the same situation as yours. Ideally, you'd somehow find one of them and have a mutually beneficial FB relationship. Keep your eyes open, they are out there indeed (I think).
 

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Yeah but usually even in a fwb situation they still want a meal, flowers or something to not make themfeel like a total slvt puppy..and then theu have thw option at anytime to say no..
 

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bradd80 said:
I'd never pay for sex bc the best sex is when it's condomles with a real hot hb9 who knows what she's doing. Sex with condoms is just pointless, so if it comes up I'll do it for fun but i'd never pay for it.
Yeah I agree brad and I feel the same way.. but my other endeavors aee leaving me little time for girls .. and I don't fap, so wtf..
 

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I have nothing against guys using hookers. In the case of an extremely busy businessman/professional, I think that would be ok if that's his thing.

I personally am not interested in that though. Even during a 2 year dry spell, I still did not want to hire a hooker.

The reasons I don't like hookers:

1. I don't like being on the clock. Trying to perform on demand for a ONS is tough enough for an older guy who gets performance anxiety sometimes. Knowing that she's leaving in an hour puts too much pressure on me.

2. I am a romantic at heart. Even for a ONS, I like a fun, interesting, intelligent woman, plenty of foreplay, etc.

3. As with #2 and #3, I want her to spend the night. Most ONS' are willing to stay over in my experience which is nice. You can do it again in the morning :up: . Overnight service from a hooker is prohibitively expensive except for very wealthy guys.

4. I want to kiss and makeout. Hookers typically don't. You probably wouldn't want to if she offered though lol.

5. I think we all want to be desired. Whether it's a ONS, FWB, or LTR, most men prefer to be F-ed by a female that finds them attractive. A 7 that genuniely wants me is sexier (to me) than a 9 that is watching the clock and can't wait for it to be over.

6. The sloppy seconds thing. Unless you were the first appointment that day, I would hate to think how many were before me that day alone.

But to each his own.

But yes, we all pay for it one way or the other. In fact, vacation sex, which is my favorite, is probably MORE expensive per F than a hooker lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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