oozing sexuality

[gruby]

So i was just diagnosed by a good female friend of mine that i'm handsome and not bad looking but what i'm missing is that i'm not "oozing sexuality."

The worst thing is that she might be right. I mean i don't have much problem going out with women but unfortunately conveying to them that i "want" them is my biggest challenge.

Advice?

 

[rgeere]

What she is telling you is that you are an average looking person who is neither hot nor cold, beautiful or ugly, and that she doesn't think you live up to your potential as a man.

By the way, she might have been interested in you once. But not now apparently...

 

[gruby]

...yeah, but then she brings up her boyfriend who supposely is "oozing sexuality" and trust me she can't be talking about looks there.

 

[gruby]

"she doesn't think you live up to your potential as a man."

...a what?

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by gruby
...yeah, but then she brings up her boyfriend who supposely is "oozing sexuality" and trust me she can't be talking about looks there.

She isn't attracted to you. You only reaffirmed that point by saying this.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by gruby
"she doesn't think you live up to your potential as a man."

...a what?

exactly as I said it....

 

[gruby]

You answer as if assumig that i want to know whether she's attracted to me. I already know she isn't. I just wanted to know what women might imply (besides stated above) when they say it (and better yet how to resolve it).

 

[juanstepatatime]

Taking her words at face value, it IS possible to act in ways that just are not sexual at all. Maybe you need to slow down some. Take longer, slower strides. Avoid short, jerky movements. How about your voice? You want a deep, rumbling bass, not a high-pitched, squeaky tenor. How do you dress? Baggy clothes that cover stuff up, or something that fits well and shows off your body (assuming you have a decent body to show). How do you look at things? Gaze at things, don't scan. Take your time looking at things that are beautiful (including women). Appreciate them with your eyes. Touch things. Feel things with your hands (including them - but not in a gropey, going-to-jail kinda way).

 

[rgeere]

She's being nothing more than nice to you. What she says and what she actually thinks might be two diffrent things, though.

For example there might have been a time she thought you were attractive, but turned her off and she's been that way ever since or maybe she has never found you attractive.

Either way she is giving you positive feedback. I always thought there was a contradiction when a girl tells you these things, but nevertheless she is simply stating that you arn't man enough for her.

You can correct this by acting like a man.

 

[gruby]

"Take longer, slower strides. Avoid short, jerky movements."

juanstepatatime: man, you might be onto something with this. I drink too much f uckin redbull.

 

[Ballistik]

Originally posted by gruby
"Take longer, slower strides. Avoid short, jerky movements."

juanstepatatime: man, you might be onto something with this. I drink too much f uckin redbull.

That stuff is the sh!t, though.

 

[TurboLover]

Originally posted by gruby
"Take longer, slower strides. Avoid short, jerky movements."

juanstepatatime: man, you might be onto something with this. I drink too much f uckin redbull.

LOL

Word.(<==thats right, I went there) Everything looks good in slow motion.

 

[CLOONEY]

Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Ricky Martin, watch how these guys carry themselves. Sexuality comes by the way you move, the way you carry yourself, the vibes you send off, the way you beleive in yourself. Once you are truly comfortable with yourself, and with yourself around beautiful woman, you will start to feel the sexuality ooze out of you. Just gotta get out in that game and learn the basics first!