"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ooh you're such an *******!!!

grayclif

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Text exchange...

Me: hey
HB: im not talking to you.
Me: what's bothering you now
HB: you're a horrible lover
Me: huh!
HB: we haven't texted in a few days and we haven't spoken since Friday.
Me: yeah, I've been tying up some loose ends at work so we can spend some quality time over the holiday. What's up?
HB: if I don't initiate contact with you we don't talk.
Me: I texted you this morning didn't I.
HB: oooooh, you're such an ass.hole. You make me sooooo mad.
Me: (fist pump)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Misrah

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You should say: why dont you come over. And kiss me with all of those threats?
 

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You should say: why dont you come over. And kiss me with all of those threats?
haha yep. This^^, or even "ohhh so maaaaaad? You should come over and take all that aggression out on me"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like she could be totally into you. I get the "omg I hate you so much" 5 seconds later we are making out.
 
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