She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
On the other hand it becomes more and more acceptable . More local next-door-women do this thus they'll lure in more and more men..It's a clear sign of the climate this ( dating ) era is in."Soared" my @ss OP. Sh1t's starting to plateau if it hasn't already
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OnlyFans Gross Revenue Rises 9% to $7.2 Billion in 2024
OnlyFans reported $7.22 billion in gross revenue, up 9%, and pre-tax profit of $684 million, up 4% for its 2024 fiscal year.variety.com
From the article: "The latest OnlyFans results show its revenue and earnings growing at a slower pace than in past years. In 2021, OnlyFans saw gross revenue shoot up 118%, driven by the global COVID pandemic, followed by annual increases of 16% and 19% in 2022 and 2023, respectively."
Might be a good time to short.
Growth rates 2021-2024, in order by year
118
16
19
9
I bet the 19% growth in '23 had some creative accounting involved.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
On the other hand it becomes more and more acceptable . More local next-door-women do this thus they'll lure in more and more men..It's a clear sign of the climate this ( dating ) era is in.
We'll see if OF reached it's peak ..
The world's oldest profession isn't going anywhere, but the dollar amounts go up and down with the economy. Not that I was there, but there are stories of Eastern Europe after the fall of the USSR where prostitutes were going for the price of a sandwich.
The lowest price I remember was $7/hr.The world's oldest profession isn't going anywhere, but the dollar amounts go up and down with the economy. Not that I was there, but there are stories of Eastern Europe after the fall of the USSR where prostitutes were going for the price of a sandwich.