"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Only young hot girls are important

BadBoy89

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I can’t get a link to the direct article, but basically 45 year tv actress (41 when she wrote it), who has PhD in neuroscience and starred in Big Bang Theory, wrote an article for the NYT saying in order to protect herself, it was "wise" to dress "modestly" and not act "flirtatiously" with men. Essentially she thinks only “hot” girls are sexually assualted.


Does this woman, who has PhD, have a point?

Curious of the responses.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not sure dressing modestly would make a difference for her. She's not the cutest girl going around....
 

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I can’t get a link to the direct article, but basically 45 year tv actress (41 when she wrote it), who has PhD in neuroscience and starred in Big Bang Theory, wrote an article for the NYT saying in order to protect herself, it was "wise" to dress "modestly" and not act "flirtatiously" with men. Essentially she thinks only “hot” girls are sexually assualted.


Does this woman, who has PhD, have a point?

Curious of the responses.
men are very thirsty :)
 

Lookatu

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Next in the news:
Females walking home from a bar drunk at 2am in the morning are more likely to get raped than females walking in a group sober at 9pm.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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