"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Only young hot girls are important

BadBoy89

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I can’t get a link to the direct article, but basically 45 year tv actress (41 when she wrote it), who has PhD in neuroscience and starred in Big Bang Theory, wrote an article for the NYT saying in order to protect herself, it was "wise" to dress "modestly" and not act "flirtatiously" with men. Essentially she thinks only “hot” girls are sexually assualted.


Does this woman, who has PhD, have a point?

Curious of the responses.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not sure dressing modestly would make a difference for her. She's not the cutest girl going around....
 

Bigpapa

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I can’t get a link to the direct article, but basically 45 year tv actress (41 when she wrote it), who has PhD in neuroscience and starred in Big Bang Theory, wrote an article for the NYT saying in order to protect herself, it was "wise" to dress "modestly" and not act "flirtatiously" with men. Essentially she thinks only “hot” girls are sexually assualted.


Does this woman, who has PhD, have a point?

Curious of the responses.
men are very thirsty :)
 

Lookatu

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Females walking home from a bar drunk at 2am in the morning are more likely to get raped than females walking in a group sober at 9pm.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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