How do you deal with girls who say, "All you want is sex." This girl I fvcked about 5 times, said I was using her for sex. She said I could not screw another women. She told a bunch of people I know she said I was evil and such. Since she had a big mouth, the people who listened to her think I am an asxhole. What should I do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Only want sex...
- Thread starter crossboss
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
are you still seeing or trying to see this girl? If she is being ridiculous drop her, that right there proves you werent just using her for sex.
If you still want to see her, tell her you want to keep seeing her but you dont jump into relationships and she has to deserve the privilege to be called your girl friend and her talking sh!t about you aint earning her any points. So she better shape up or your done with it.
If you still want to see her, tell her you want to keep seeing her but you dont jump into relationships and she has to deserve the privilege to be called your girl friend and her talking sh!t about you aint earning her any points. So she better shape up or your done with it.
Tell her to eff off. And to the people who think you're a jerk, tell them they should know better who to trust and that they can believe what/who they want to - but you know who you are, and go about your business. Simple & easy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Absolutely nothing. Keep doing what you're doing.
Do not indicate any emotional rise from her little temper tantrum. Simply ignore, or laugh it off.
While you think this may be "destroying your reputation" it really isn't. Deep down, every woman secretly wants a player. This girl doesn't know it but all she is doing is INCREASING your value every time she says a word about you. Don't agitate it, just let her do her thing. You are a MAN. We men are sexual beings, there is no shame in wanting sex. This is how we are biologically programmed.
If you aren't dating her then fvck as many woman as you want.
-Scars
Do not indicate any emotional rise from her little temper tantrum. Simply ignore, or laugh it off.
While you think this may be "destroying your reputation" it really isn't. Deep down, every woman secretly wants a player. This girl doesn't know it but all she is doing is INCREASING your value every time she says a word about you. Don't agitate it, just let her do her thing. You are a MAN. We men are sexual beings, there is no shame in wanting sex. This is how we are biologically programmed.
If you aren't dating her then fvck as many woman as you want.
-Scars