"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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How do you deal with girls who say, "All you want is sex." This girl I fvcked about 5 times, said I was using her for sex. She said I could not screw another women. She told a bunch of people I know she said I was evil and such. Since she had a big mouth, the people who listened to her think I am an asxhole. What should I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chromeo

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are you still seeing or trying to see this girl? If she is being ridiculous drop her, that right there proves you werent just using her for sex.

If you still want to see her, tell her you want to keep seeing her but you dont jump into relationships and she has to deserve the privilege to be called your girl friend and her talking sh!t about you aint earning her any points. So she better shape up or your done with it.
 

TheJazz

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Tell her to eff off. And to the people who think you're a jerk, tell them they should know better who to trust and that they can believe what/who they want to - but you know who you are, and go about your business. Simple & easy.
 

Scars

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Absolutely nothing. Keep doing what you're doing.

Do not indicate any emotional rise from her little temper tantrum. Simply ignore, or laugh it off.

While you think this may be "destroying your reputation" it really isn't. Deep down, every woman secretly wants a player. This girl doesn't know it but all she is doing is INCREASING your value every time she says a word about you. Don't agitate it, just let her do her thing. You are a MAN. We men are sexual beings, there is no shame in wanting sex. This is how we are biologically programmed.

If you aren't dating her then fvck as many woman as you want.

-Scars
 
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