"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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only upper body workouts..

Orwell

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Hello everyone..:wave:

Ive been walking to my friends home gym recently, but all hes got is a bench press a few dumbbells, and a pull down bar.. (or whatever its called sorry). Obviously I cannot do squats or deadlifts. Ive been reading that it is difficult to grow without these two important mass building exercises. How much progress with I be able to make by simply working the back through the pulldown, as well as bench press variations (incline, flat, etc) ?

thanks in advance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Throttle

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You absolutely positively must find some way to blast the legs & back if you want to build big mass. You need a professional gym (university & some high school gyms included!) but in the meantime you need to figure out if he has enough dumbbells to even be worth piddling with. You can squat (much less effectively) with dumbbells. Or do lunges. But I know of no dumbbell replacement for a deadlift, your #1 mass building option just ahead of squats. And you've got to move significant weight, otherwise you're wasting your time & your friend's.
 
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