"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Only SP I will have is a girl that likes me

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I want to go to a football game because there's this girl I like that will be there, possibly. However, all my friends bailed on me or have to work. Now the only social proof I will have is this girl that asked me to go who likes me even though I don't like her. Should I just not go?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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o0...

There's two girls here?

And if you don't got SP, then whatever, you create it. Wings/buddies aren't required to pick up.
 

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Docs said:
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There's two girls here?

And if you don't got SP, then whatever, you create it. Wings/buddies aren't required to pick up.
I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
 

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Nobody said:
I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
You are so self-conscious.
 

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I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
Haha, no..to be one of those, you'd have to hang with all of those girls, shoot them down big time when they try to get with you, and you hit on a guy.

As with AN, your too self conscious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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