"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Only SP I will have is a girl that likes me

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I want to go to a football game because there's this girl I like that will be there, possibly. However, all my friends bailed on me or have to work. Now the only social proof I will have is this girl that asked me to go who likes me even though I don't like her. Should I just not go?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's two girls here?

And if you don't got SP, then whatever, you create it. Wings/buddies aren't required to pick up.
 
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Docs said:
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There's two girls here?

And if you don't got SP, then whatever, you create it. Wings/buddies aren't required to pick up.
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I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
 
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I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
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You are so self-conscious.
 
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I'll have plenty of girls taht are friends going, but no guys. Won't I look like a faggot if I just hang out with girls then hit on a girl?
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Haha, no..to be one of those, you'd have to hang with all of those girls, shoot them down big time when they try to get with you, and you hit on a guy.

As with AN, your too self conscious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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