only respond if you know what you are talking about

[tjslove]

I need help

I have been chatting with this girl in work.......it all started when she told me of her mother's health problem and I told her that my mother had the same problem. Later on it has led to where we would sit next to her in work and talk.

The story changed immensely. She started asking me if I liked her hair and she commented on a haircut I got. Afterward, she was saying that she needed a date for a wedding(THREE TIMES) and I answered back that I think she would manage. Later, just little comments that were argumentative came up and then I unfortunately drunk dialed her and told her I liked her......which I just laughed off.

I am at a standstill and do not know how much more to write. The other day at work I was sitting at a different desk and she asked if I would go sit next to her......which I did not.

I am not sure how to close the deal without causing an earthquake

 

[cave dweller]

bread........

Hey,

Rule number 34 is:

Don't put your meat where you get your bread.

(maybe she has a 'hot' girlfriend)

cave dweller

 

[mike88nbd]

Well if you like her then just make a move, it doesnt have to be anything big, just something casual, like;

"Hey, whats your number? Ill call you sometime and we'll go chill somewhere"

If your interested then you better make a move soon or your gonna end up just being friends.

 

[tjslove]

why

why

 

[tjslove]

ok

ok anything substantive?

 

[Morphiex]

oki...?

what do you want? a date with her?, then she is already showing you the signs.... Just grab your god damn balls and ask her out...
i dont see the problem, she even asked you out when she said she needed a date for a wedding, she kinda hinted it, but i guess u didnt understand that, they dont want to make the first move , she is waiting for you to do so, just ask her out if she ays no then move on.... better to know now then to walk around for months thinking of ways to impress her....

 

[Morphiex]

Re: why

Originally posted by tjslove
why

cuz people tend to move on and not obsess over the same person fo al time , they meet new people and get into new relationships...
And they sometime loose interest... u HAVE HER WHERE U WANT HER,just ask her out for a date.... nothing fancy, a movie then get some grub then take your car, if u have one, and drive to the lake and sit on the hood and eat and talk while listening to some tunes...

 

[Black_Italian]

Simple tell her your taking her out to see a movie.

Ninja out