Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Only really exciting guys get the girls?

thewarrior

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I see this over and over again. Like a guy should be wrestling lions or saving whales before a woman takes notice. What about all the men who live ordinary lives and don't really get to do anything exciting?

I'm just curious, and want some responses from the masters. How exciting are you and what activities do you do on a routine basis that women just eat up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Everybody should have something exciting going on in their life. But, if you don't thats okay.

I'll tell you from my experience. There was a time in my life where all I did was smoke weed. Hang out with friends, watch tv, play video games and whatever. You know, nothing really exciting. But, I still was able to get girls.

It's really who you are as a person. If you can show good body language, be out-going, have a smile on your face, confident attitude, and approach women. You will stand out over other guys.
 

Rex Man

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Well, I just got done wrestling a family of bears (them fvckers are nasty). I have to clean myself up though because I'm renting out a yacht for my date tonight. But considering I'm a triple agent, I'll have to keep my 10mm (with the phase cancellation silencer equipped) close by the whole night lest evil henchmen steal the nation-destroying secrets contained in this laptop.

Why, what do you do?
 

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well i like to skydive on the weekends, and drive my Lamborghini really fast on the highway.

but sometimes i do freelance work for the russian mob in my area and i run a club weekend nights...

so yeah
 

Charm&Style

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Your life does not have to be exciting, your personality does. I myself am a pre dental student who spends most of my time studying yet ive had no troubles in getting the women i want. You have to be energetic, your friends have to be energetic and most of all you should be loving life.

How do you obtain an exciting personality? Easy, live for yourself and no one else. Make yourself your number 1 priority. You have been blessed by having a Y chromosome which has lead your destiny to be a man. Know this, we men can live single for the rest of our lives because as time goes on we become more successful, more experienced, and more wanted. Women on the other hand are the opposite. They cannot live w/o a man and they're value descends like a bad stock after 30.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i know a guy who scuba dives, goes on long hikes abroad etc, and he repels women

it doesn't always follow
 

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I will say that being exciting doesn't always mean you get the girls. I used to do sound for concerts and huge parties and always be traveling. Yes, its pretty cool to say that you met celebrity ________ and had a drink with them after their set and were on stage with _________ and blah, blah, blah. But, it doesn't make you available for females. I used to always get texts from females asking what I was doing and I would have to say: I'm in SF, or LA or LV or somewhere other than where they were.

In short, I missed out on a huge amount of pu55y because I was not convenient and was always out doing something exciting. Another thing that I noticed is that some women felt that there was no way that they could compete with what I was doing and gave up on me entirely. I am changing that whole part of my life and let me tell you what-- its working out great. Having a corporate job and steady schedule is getting me a lot more play than I ever dreamed of when I was always traveling. Its always nice to say that you have an exciting life, but is it lonely?
 

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You dont have to BE, exciting, but you should be able to SHOW them excitement on a regular basis. Or, having an exciting personality does the job just as well.
 

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YOU GUYS ARE KIDDING ME!! i walkedd in the bar the other night and i made sure i was the most exciting guy in there...girls came up to me i talking to every chick in there and guys are just standing there...yes the EXCiTing guys get the honey's
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Badmannaz said:
YOU GUYS ARE KIDDING ME!! i walkedd in the bar the other night and i made sure i was the most exciting guy in there...girls came up to me i talking to every chick in there and guys are just standing there...yes the EXCiTing guys get the honey's
Yes, the guy who is out going, having fun and ect is more exciting and will attract more women. But, as for the OP wondering if you need to be Crocodile Dundee living an extreme life... You dont need that type of lifestyle to attract women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julian

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Just be alpha about sh1t and girls are bound to like you, this is not a rocket science.
 
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