"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Only really exciting guys get the girls?

thewarrior

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I see this over and over again. Like a guy should be wrestling lions or saving whales before a woman takes notice. What about all the men who live ordinary lives and don't really get to do anything exciting?

I'm just curious, and want some responses from the masters. How exciting are you and what activities do you do on a routine basis that women just eat up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Everybody should have something exciting going on in their life. But, if you don't thats okay.

I'll tell you from my experience. There was a time in my life where all I did was smoke weed. Hang out with friends, watch tv, play video games and whatever. You know, nothing really exciting. But, I still was able to get girls.

It's really who you are as a person. If you can show good body language, be out-going, have a smile on your face, confident attitude, and approach women. You will stand out over other guys.
 

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Well, I just got done wrestling a family of bears (them fvckers are nasty). I have to clean myself up though because I'm renting out a yacht for my date tonight. But considering I'm a triple agent, I'll have to keep my 10mm (with the phase cancellation silencer equipped) close by the whole night lest evil henchmen steal the nation-destroying secrets contained in this laptop.

Why, what do you do?
 

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well i like to skydive on the weekends, and drive my Lamborghini really fast on the highway.

but sometimes i do freelance work for the russian mob in my area and i run a club weekend nights...

so yeah
 

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Your life does not have to be exciting, your personality does. I myself am a pre dental student who spends most of my time studying yet ive had no troubles in getting the women i want. You have to be energetic, your friends have to be energetic and most of all you should be loving life.

How do you obtain an exciting personality? Easy, live for yourself and no one else. Make yourself your number 1 priority. You have been blessed by having a Y chromosome which has lead your destiny to be a man. Know this, we men can live single for the rest of our lives because as time goes on we become more successful, more experienced, and more wanted. Women on the other hand are the opposite. They cannot live w/o a man and they're value descends like a bad stock after 30.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i know a guy who scuba dives, goes on long hikes abroad etc, and he repels women

it doesn't always follow
 

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I will say that being exciting doesn't always mean you get the girls. I used to do sound for concerts and huge parties and always be traveling. Yes, its pretty cool to say that you met celebrity ________ and had a drink with them after their set and were on stage with _________ and blah, blah, blah. But, it doesn't make you available for females. I used to always get texts from females asking what I was doing and I would have to say: I'm in SF, or LA or LV or somewhere other than where they were.

In short, I missed out on a huge amount of pu55y because I was not convenient and was always out doing something exciting. Another thing that I noticed is that some women felt that there was no way that they could compete with what I was doing and gave up on me entirely. I am changing that whole part of my life and let me tell you what-- its working out great. Having a corporate job and steady schedule is getting me a lot more play than I ever dreamed of when I was always traveling. Its always nice to say that you have an exciting life, but is it lonely?
 

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You dont have to BE, exciting, but you should be able to SHOW them excitement on a regular basis. Or, having an exciting personality does the job just as well.
 

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YOU GUYS ARE KIDDING ME!! i walkedd in the bar the other night and i made sure i was the most exciting guy in there...girls came up to me i talking to every chick in there and guys are just standing there...yes the EXCiTing guys get the honey's
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Badmannaz said:
YOU GUYS ARE KIDDING ME!! i walkedd in the bar the other night and i made sure i was the most exciting guy in there...girls came up to me i talking to every chick in there and guys are just standing there...yes the EXCiTing guys get the honey's
Yes, the guy who is out going, having fun and ect is more exciting and will attract more women. But, as for the OP wondering if you need to be Crocodile Dundee living an extreme life... You dont need that type of lifestyle to attract women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just be alpha about sh1t and girls are bound to like you, this is not a rocket science.
 
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