You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
They aren't there to listen. They already have all the answers even tho they don't know the questions.What did these girls learn from this debate this experience? NOTHING
Honestly man dating these types of hot chicks would be a nightmare.. No Alpha high value man would deal with these dumb asses!
Only a simp would deal with these slvts
Dude man, you don't have to talk to them. Some 10/10 girl will just come to your place and magically have sex with you on command according to posters on this board.What did these girls learn from this debate this experience? NOTHING
Honestly man dating these types of hot chicks would be a nightmare.. No Alpha high value man would deal with these dumb asses!
Only a simp would deal with these slvts
Haven't seen anyone say anything remotely close to this. You interpret things pretty poorly apparently. And give me a 7 over a 10 all day long and twice on Sunday. I don't have time for that level of BS to have to deal with on an everyday basis.Dude man, you don't have to talk to them. Some 10/10 girl will just come to your place and magically have sex with you on command according to posters on this board.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Facts.Haven't seen anyone say anything remotely close to this. You interpret things pretty poorly apparently. And give me a 7 over a 10 all day long and twice on Sunday. I don't have time for that level of BS to have to deal with on an everyday basis.
To me all three of them look like ugly prostitutes.Watched this today & thought it was a fascinating insight into how Only Fans girls operate & was quite fun to see them get destroyed lol
Yes, you are successful at slutting yourself out for money - the world's oldest form of "success".I'm very successful.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Actually the middle one is the most attractive physically and also because she is silent and accepting of what they say and not counter questioning.two girls on the left are ugly
She has the face of a middle-aged woman even if she's in her twenties as far as I know. Probably partied a lot. The one on the right has a pretty face, but she's overweight. A couple of more kilos and she'll be un****able.Actually the middle one is the most attractive physically and also because she is silent and accepting of what they say and not counter questioning.
No wonder they say men want a submissive cooperative woman. The one on the right is going to become a cat lady. When her watch on the wall begins, it would be fun to see her fail.
The middle one actually understood that they were trying to tell her its not a sustainable model and she is a temp worker.
Well, Blondie on the right has a pretty face, but her figure isn't very feminine.To me all three of them look like ugly prostitutes.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.