“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Only attracting crazy girls, or are they all crazy? (long)

jaybeezi

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Havent been here for a little while, but after I started coming here I have gone out with a few girls, and so far they are all crazy. Girl #1 (the reason I came here),(oneitis) anyway, we talked, she asked for my #, called me, asked me to go out, we met at a club, she danced with everyone but me. This got me seriously upset, I decided not to let females have so much control over my emotions.

We talked a week later, and she told me she was moving 3 hrs away, I later found out she was still here for at least 2 weeks after that. She calls me a month later and tells me she is moving back. (I dont think she ever moved) I ask her to go out for lunch, plans get messed up, and we dont go, instead going on a walk through the park, which sucked, it was so boring. She didnt call back. Untill 2 months later at 1am, just to talk, for 45 min.

Girl #2 (28 years old by the way) By this time I have actually made good on not letting them get to me. I see her at a club, her friends tell me she wants to dance with me so we dance, she invites me to a party the next night, I go, her ex-bf shows up, says something stupid to her, she goes outside, we leave, whatever. Over the next 3 weeks she called me pretty much everyday wanting to talk for hours, ughh. I barely answered the phone.

I find out she had gotten back together with her ex for a week after the party. Someone told him that me and her were going out all the time (not true), and she told him I was her Bf, so now he wants to fight me, and I decide that this whole thing sucks, and tell her that it is not going to work, she apologizes for anything she did, and tells me she will not call me anymore.
She calls me 2 days later and asks me about something, then proceed's to BEG to let her go to a car show with me.
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease let me go, I dont have any friends, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease. "um, ya i'll call u"

Girl # 3. Finally a normal girl, with a good head on her shoulders.
In college, a bio/pre-med major, smart, funny, nice person, and she's cute. I find out from mutual friends that she really really likes me, and is smiling all day after talking to me, sounds good right. She invites me to the "Penguin Ball" at her college, and we go. She ignores me the whole night. I later find out she liked some guy and I didnt like her, but then found out I was talking to her, and started talking to her. whatever.

As far as I can tell they are all insane.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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maranathaman

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"As far as I can tell they are all insane."

Grasshopper,
you have now graduated to the next level of enlightenment!
 

Jimbo2k

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Ever wandered that maybe they invite you places, then end up with others, cause your not as good as they originally thought?

I bet both nights at the dances you werent being "alpha enough"
 

Pimp-sicle

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This post probably won't make ANY SENSE, but I'll continue anyways.

I find that if a girl is completely level-headed and straight-forward with her intentions, no matter how hot she is I get bored really easily. And yeah, I find that my extreme confidence, C/F attracts a wide range of girls but especially the psycho-insecure ones. I know I must be sick in the head a little bit, but I kinda like it a little bit, adds some intrigue and mystery to the whole bit.



PIMP
 

maranathaman

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Originally posted by Jimbo2k
Ever wandered that maybe they invite you places, then end up with others, cause your not as good as they originally thought?

I bet both nights at the dances you werent being "alpha enough"
One time I took these two hot sisters to a rock concert, and they left me to flirt with other guys. Then they came-back in time for me to drive them home! Needless to say, I didn't answer their calls after-that! I know when I'm being used as a chump!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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showtime17

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Welcome to my world. I only seem to attract the psycho chicks as well. One chick I met at a club. She actually approached and introduced herself to me and gave me her phonenumber. She was pretty hot. However I got reallly weirded out when i talked to her on the phone. She sounded really psycho. Let's just say I didnt call her ever after that. Another chick, she started talking to me as well, asked for my email, i asked for hers. Had a great conversation. Talked to her a few times during exam period. So after exams I write her an email, she doesnt respond. One day I am walking, and I am not sure but I think she saw me and she turns arounds and makes her friend turn around and i think she just pretended to ignore me. Another chick asks me out, says she will pay for everything. So I call her the day we're supposed to go out, but she isnt answering the phone, i write her an email, no response...what the hell is up with these chicks? i think it might be just the school i go to...it's a congregation of really weird chicks..:confused:
 

TyTe`EyEs

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All girls are crazy as far as I'm concerned. The trick is to find a crazy chick that doesn't freak you out as much as the rest.
 

Austin Allegro

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I wouldn't go so far as to say they're ALL mad, but even the most rational of women tend to be much LESS rational than most men, so they do tend to act oddly.

Add to that the fact that the hotter the woman, the more she is in demand, so the more she flakes and therefore the crazier she seems.

Remember the line in 'As Good as it Gets' where someone asks the writer (played by Jack Nicholson) how he creates such realistic female characters? He says 'I just imagine they are like men, but without the rationality or the accountability'.

:D
 
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