"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok, ****y and funny is a lot easier to pull off in person. plenty of visuals around to use but when it comes to first encounter with someone online first, are there any tips? i mean text doesnt contain emotion so its hard to say what you want in a sly way and not come off offensive, but playful.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WRONG----online is a GREAT WAY to practice C & F.........in fact email enticements are the salient rule for extracting numbers and dates online.

Salient: major important/benchmark

David D who popularized C & F tactic even advises so in his book. IM's, emails or profiles.

I cant tell you how many times I used the C & F tactic in emails that led to sex in less than a hour. LET ME REPEAT THAT..............emailed a chic (a complete stranger) and used some C & F and 45 minutes later I am seeing this chic naked at her house.

There are some good examples I have found, David Deangelo has a few, Dave M of insiders net dating has several and THE book DaVagina code has tons of cut n paste C & F emails that have worked for me.

The downside to the C & F method is it does nothing to build rapport or escalation. If used too much it becomes irritating. Best if used in small doses. The biggest problem is the ratio takes a lot of practice to perfect as no two women will perceive it the same way. Most guys have a problem with the Funny part, it's the ****y portion that most often repels women.
 
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OH YEAH one more thing........TEXT FLIRTING is on the increase for non-verbal communication. Since most people own a cell phone, sending c & f text flirts rules. In 2007 almost 10 billion messages were sent via cell phone. Theres a company that even offers COOL text flirts that are very coc ky for like 6 bucks a month.
 
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