"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok, ****y and funny is a lot easier to pull off in person. plenty of visuals around to use but when it comes to first encounter with someone online first, are there any tips? i mean text doesnt contain emotion so its hard to say what you want in a sly way and not come off offensive, but playful.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WRONG----online is a GREAT WAY to practice C & F.........in fact email enticements are the salient rule for extracting numbers and dates online.

Salient: major important/benchmark

David D who popularized C & F tactic even advises so in his book. IM's, emails or profiles.

I cant tell you how many times I used the C & F tactic in emails that led to sex in less than a hour. LET ME REPEAT THAT..............emailed a chic (a complete stranger) and used some C & F and 45 minutes later I am seeing this chic naked at her house.

There are some good examples I have found, David Deangelo has a few, Dave M of insiders net dating has several and THE book DaVagina code has tons of cut n paste C & F emails that have worked for me.

The downside to the C & F method is it does nothing to build rapport or escalation. If used too much it becomes irritating. Best if used in small doses. The biggest problem is the ratio takes a lot of practice to perfect as no two women will perceive it the same way. Most guys have a problem with the Funny part, it's the ****y portion that most often repels women.
 
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OH YEAH one more thing........TEXT FLIRTING is on the increase for non-verbal communication. Since most people own a cell phone, sending c & f text flirts rules. In 2007 almost 10 billion messages were sent via cell phone. Theres a company that even offers COOL text flirts that are very coc ky for like 6 bucks a month.
 
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