"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok, ****y and funny is a lot easier to pull off in person. plenty of visuals around to use but when it comes to first encounter with someone online first, are there any tips? i mean text doesnt contain emotion so its hard to say what you want in a sly way and not come off offensive, but playful.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WRONG----online is a GREAT WAY to practice C & F.........in fact email enticements are the salient rule for extracting numbers and dates online.

Salient: major important/benchmark

David D who popularized C & F tactic even advises so in his book. IM's, emails or profiles.

I cant tell you how many times I used the C & F tactic in emails that led to sex in less than a hour. LET ME REPEAT THAT..............emailed a chic (a complete stranger) and used some C & F and 45 minutes later I am seeing this chic naked at her house.

There are some good examples I have found, David Deangelo has a few, Dave M of insiders net dating has several and THE book DaVagina code has tons of cut n paste C & F emails that have worked for me.

The downside to the C & F method is it does nothing to build rapport or escalation. If used too much it becomes irritating. Best if used in small doses. The biggest problem is the ratio takes a lot of practice to perfect as no two women will perceive it the same way. Most guys have a problem with the Funny part, it's the ****y portion that most often repels women.
 
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OH YEAH one more thing........TEXT FLIRTING is on the increase for non-verbal communication. Since most people own a cell phone, sending c & f text flirts rules. In 2007 almost 10 billion messages were sent via cell phone. Theres a company that even offers COOL text flirts that are very coc ky for like 6 bucks a month.
 
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